Responsibility and Resourced Mothers

How our health is a legacy

Rachelle Seliga of Innate Traditions wrotr something that said “our health is cumulative.”

This is a fact and it’s something I endeavor to point to in every one of my sessions with women: this health issue you’re dealing with right now; the one that is screaming at you or starting to get louder; is the result of YEARS of smaller health issues and imbalances and whispers.

It may be the result of what you were mildly deficient in from a childhood or infancy because of poor diet or childhood trauma (which requires more nutrients and energy from the body). It may be the result of what your mother was deficient in while you were gestating in her womb, or maybe even her mother.

I don’t believe in “genetics” in the way that the mainstream talks about them, like they are a doomed life sentence you can do nothing to change.

Epigenetics (the concept that your genetic expression can be turned on and off via your environment) makes far more sense to me.

I do; however, believe that our Matter (Ma); the holy physicality of our bodies, comes through the physical resource of our mothers’ bodies and their mothers’ bodies before them. This is what our true genetic inheritance is.

How resourced our mothers were directly affects how resourced we are, which directly affects how resourced our children are.

Do you see it?

This is where the concept of responsibility becomes very important.

I know from my conversations with friends and clients alike over the years that responsibility is not a “fun” word for most.

A lot of women equate the word responsibility with punishment or at least take on a boring solemnity vibe when it gets brought up.

Even me suggesting that we “take responsibility” for our health can trigger a whole slew of subconscious responses about how you shouldn’t have eaten out last night and how you really need to exercise more and go to bed earlier and drink more water and on and on.

No. This. Is. Not. It.

We do not punish ourselves into becoming resourced.

If you are force feeding yourself nothing but chicken and broccoli and waking up to alarm to go hammer yourself at the gym, you are not understanding what I mean by nourishing yourself.

If your response to an invitation into taking responsibility is to self punish, this is a sign you are under resourced.

Nourishment is juicy, full, warm, and steady. It is gentle, like osmosis. It isn’t something we can force or discipline ourselves into. It never will be.

And neither is true responsibility.

Responsibility is simply the ability to respond.

Does it require erectness? Yes. Does it require commitment? Absolutely. Does it require force or judgment of self or punishment? No.

In this sense; responsibility has the potential to feel enlivening and turned on.

Taking responsibility for our health because our health is our future relatives’ health is a devotional practice. It is the long game. It is a marathon; not a sprint.

It is a beautiful and wonderful birth right to be able to affect change and nourish the soil of our matter so that it may create a legacy of nourishment.

This is the kind responsibility I am here for.

One where I am fully, 1000% committed to my self because it is what is most in service to me and the legacy of humanity.

So what does this look like? What does it take to cultivate this physical and spiritual resource within yourself and take responsibility for the legacy you are creating through your body?

This is what we will be exploring and digging into in my new offering FERTILE | a spacious and nourishing journey into the depths of your creative power.

This group will mostly be old and current clients and people I am personally inviting.

But if you feel called to this work and are ready to commit to this long term process, message me and we’ll get on a call to discuss details and if it’s a good fit. [there is no sales page or details posted anywhere else]