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Revealing vs Unloading

Revealing vs Unloading

building intimacy in our relationships

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Clara Belize Wisner
Mar 14, 2025
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When it comes to building intimacy in any relationship, romantic or friendship, we have to understand the difference between revealing ourselves to someone vs unloading on someone.

Unloading on someone has a tight and “throwing at” energy. When someone is unloading on you, it feels like they are taking all their issues, problems, experiences and setting …

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