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Lauren Barber's avatar

Thank you for sharing these tender thoughts, I appreciate the honesty so deeply. Xxx

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Clara Belize Wisner's avatar

You are so welcome. Thank you for reading.

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Women's Bodies's avatar

Love this Queen. Digging through all these posts today and really enjoying them! Thanks for pouring your heart out for us to recieve ❤️‍🩹

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Clara Belize Wisner's avatar

You are so welcome. Thank you for going down the rabbit hole of writings. Gives me a connection to what a devotion I've had here. XO

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Hunter Burgtorf's avatar

Thank you so much for sharing this. I find myself in that 'shame state' so often, and is something I'm actively working through.

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Clara Belize Wisner's avatar

Yes, shame is a tricky thing but recognizing that people can’t “shame” us because a part of us is shaming ourselves, and we can alchemize that through lots of love and approval for our parts and our patterns. 🧡

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Hunter Burgtorf's avatar

So true, thank you so much for this. Xx

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Katie, Virtually's avatar

This is perfect for me right now. I've been considering my severe, self-punishing parts and their obsession with how I look and the way others look and how it's a facet of vanity. I had always thought of vanity as a person being full of themselves and thinking they were hot shit. It's more the hyperfocused analyzer/critic being so far off the mark of my soul that it keeps me sick and heavy. The deepest thing inside me isn't checking every reflection or sizing everyone up.

Thank you 🙏🏻

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